My very dear GFPs, I am writing to you this week from the Isle of Skye, where the A[merican]B[eefcake] and I have been having a much-delayed honeymoon -- yes THAT'S HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU ALL. (The AB maybe loves you a tiny bit less 😘)But I wanted to thank you so much for your many lovely, kind responses to last week's newsletter -- I'm afraid you made this grown woman cry all over again. But it wasn't a howl of despair this time. I'm still scared, but I do feel less alone; it meant a lot to me to know that my speaking up has made so many of you feel less alone too -- and to be reminded of how beautiful and powerful the GFP community is. It is quite overwhelming to hear how much this newsletter has meant to so many of you. So: thank you, my lovely GFPs. Have a wonderful Christmas and New Year and see you all next year.But first....